Friday, October 25, 2019

Bully Prevention Tip # 3: Create a Bully-Free Cost Structure



The bully-free cost structure is an abstract concept that is often buried within other budgets and attended too only in crisis. A bully management and prevention program requires a specific budget that will include continuous improvement in the organizational culture, communities, and home environments. For example, outdated policies and procedures may need to be rewritten, and employee assistance programs implemented and funds reserved for personal counseling as needed. However, don't overlook the shared and free resources in the community that might provide substantial support and shelter.







Tuesday, October 22, 2019

Bully Prevention Tip # 1: Discover the Unmet Needs




Individuals who have self-actualized are less likely to become bullies because they have achieved their highest needs. Self-actualization is a state of congruence between the real and the ideal self. Any disequilibrium between the real and the ideal self creates actual or perceived unmet needs, which are often drivers for bully-type behaviors. Therefore, the first step in bully prevention is to discover the unmet needs of the bully, the victim, and of the organization or school. 












Saturday, October 19, 2019

Non-Verbal Communication and Bullying


 
Non-verbal bullying, such as pointing your finger specifically at a person or group to drive a point across, is an aggressive action and often does not translate well across cultures. Assertive non-verbal communication may be threatening, condescending, intimidating, and a form of harassment. All communication is 93% non-verbal, and using non-verbal communication to bully covertly is a maladaptive form of self-expression while being too cowardly to state the facts so that an adult conversation is possible.