The bully-free cost
structure is an abstract concept that is often buried within other budgets and
attended too only in crisis. A bully management and prevention program requires
a specific budget that will include continuous improvement in the
organizational culture, communities, and home environments. For example,
outdated policies and procedures may need to be rewritten, and employee assistance
programs implemented and funds reserved for personal counseling as needed.
However, don't overlook the shared and free resources in the community that
might provide substantial support and shelter.
The book An Organizational Approach to Workplace Bullying examines organizational culture and wellness in the presence of bully triads. The book includes ideas for assessment and performance improvement concerning organizational culture. The book addresses possible approaches to improve workplace culture and organizational wellness and to create bully-free environments.
Friday, October 25, 2019
Tuesday, October 22, 2019
Bully Prevention Tip # 1: Discover the Unmet Needs
Individuals who have self-actualized are less likely to become bullies because they have achieved their highest needs. Self-actualization is a state of congruence between the real and the ideal self. Any disequilibrium between the real and the ideal self creates actual or perceived unmet needs, which are often drivers for bully-type behaviors. Therefore, the first step in bully prevention is to discover the unmet needs of the bully, the victim, and of the organization or school.
Saturday, October 19, 2019
Non-Verbal Communication and Bullying
Non-verbal bullying, such
as pointing your finger specifically at a person or group to drive a point
across, is an aggressive action and often does not translate well across
cultures. Assertive non-verbal communication may be threatening, condescending,
intimidating, and a form of harassment. All communication is 93% non-verbal,
and using non-verbal communication to bully covertly is a maladaptive form of
self-expression while being too cowardly to state the facts so that an adult
conversation is possible.
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